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By visiting a number of posts I wrote once and then collected in a larger piece, with title Seven reasons women stay abusive relationships, and how to defeat each of them (which in ten months have already visited 19,000 sometimes), you may receive a reasonable number of emails from women in relation to the terrible history of their own abusive relationships. (See, for example, a difficult this comment I yesterday I posted "by a woman whose marriage is a Christian non-Christian failed.") The following letter was created in the previous week. I am sorry to say is standard-particularly the part about how this church family woman responded to the pain.

Of course, does not run something like this without a clear with the author of the woman who wrote the following my hope that the story can help other people.

Dear John,

I just Read your article on women in abusive relationships, and I think it is one of the best things I have ever read on the subject! I intend to send to others who need it.

Before 15 years I had your advice.I was in an abusive relationship for thirteen years. my man was oral offensive and, in particular, very control. our church that I had long been indo ctr ina ted in the way of thinking that separated get Sin participates. By the people of my Church was told that the reason I am unhappy marriage to me was that I was not enough for my husband. This was not the problem. My husband is also called me because I would like unsubmissive abuse.

The Church says to me that I need a good woman and only pray for better.I prayed until my face is blue. He would not change I dragged him to. four times, advice, and there was only his arms crossed and cooperate. After nearly 13 years, have been unable to live with that.My best friends once said that God will forgive me if I had my husband She tired of me ... sad to leave I) plans to three months. I went through all the reasons in my head, too late, just as you said, however, do not care. what I thought the Church, my family and my friends.I would like to see.

Two weeks ago that I was planning to move, that I lost my job the hidden and must be misleading.My dear friend, I would like to take with her family for three months until I got a new job.

Of course, after I left, I would like to go to my husband of counseling topics and change.I went to two new consultation meetings with him, but I don't have anywhere. I said him to separate wild pass. He gave me everything and receive only my belongings, and Yes, many of our church leaders don't have to do anything with me now, "Walking" to my husband.

A few years economically difficult. (I lost my job and ran again, copies of all my credit cards You need to survive. bankruptcy file to learn from the debt after they finally another task that I experienced was dating scene there., and a slew of men who just as my former husband. No, thank you. I would be only the rest of my life.

Finally, I have a wonderful man during Thanksgiving, when no one has to look at what I have been looking for a person not miserable so long that almost felt that it was normal to feel we got married. two weeks ago, and we are very pleased. I am grateful I from my first marriage, and a second chance for a happy life.

Other women who are in the same situation, only with you. search for help. There are some people who will help, but you can choice. worth the trouble.

(Short) after my Christian leaders: stop for God's Sake, encouraging Wife overloaded.

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