See the story of a journalist — Kabiru Wambui, very closely. You may be able to read that story here. Many people eytychise friend and noted that these two (and her husband) deep affection between them. If this is the case then what went wrong? There is the argument that no one knows for sure that was her husband who killed. It Is true. But a man who is his wife, the mother of his son, his lover kills assuming that it is what makes?
Actually pollin on this issue for a while, since I have a tendency to analyze more than stuff. I want to call it morbid curiosity. Maybe it's good, it could be. But, really, is not around the easiest. Two people who else seems too happy with the outside world can effectively deal with difficult issues. The complexities that come with relationships is so astonishing that I ranked as one of the biggest mysteries of the world. There because women in abusive relationships. I discovered that "rules" (genus) is actually a book work is missing. If such a book, I can assure you that every creature life, including whales will bring. I mean, who do not want them as the ideal relationship, devoid of pain and tragedy?
I have a theory. Two people begin already love. Everything is fine and dandy to a problem crying offset project passengers torque bliss. The party refers to the fictional "-rules-book" and quickly discovered that the communication is * in * solution. Then, communicate their frustration with the expectation that things will change. Things do not change. Enter frustration. The relations are on the job, right? Try to communicate again. Things remain constant. This is where proud checks. Decide to stop watching, as weak and exercise without a care in the world. What they don't know is that these issues of Albanian in what can be a powerful volcano. The next thing you know, these two passions explode and breaking the neck of the other.
Where am I going with all this? Ladies, it's terrible to be committed to your relationship. Is your child growing up like Royal with their father, but not if it costs you your life. What happened to this could happen to you and me. It is not our position to point fingers or to judge, but it is absolutely necessary to learn from what happened in order to avoid becoming a statistic. A man will wake up and will kill without prior notice. But there are dozens, if not hundreds of red flags. (And if you're up to the flag to hundreds wait, may God.) Red flags will this manipulative tendencies, mind games, repeated insulting comments — the kind that mess up your self-esteem. It is a raised voice, uncontrolled passions, a blow, push the discovery of indecent means, a threat will (Yes, a recognition that the words "I will kill" will kill). Listen to your intuition. With regard to this incident, she said that her friends texted, saying he was afraid for her life. ENTER THE. LEAVE. ARISE FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP BEFORE YOU DIE.
When it comes to issues of abuse (a type), is any room for "modus vivendi". None. I beg you please, with the strongest possible terms, talk with someone. Your sister, your friends, your parents, your God. Get Help. Drug users (if this is a word at all) have an uncanny way so you can trust. This dependency and lack of action later culminates with debacles such as the death of the victims of abuse.
The good book, the Bible quote: "love is patient, love is kind. It does not jealous, not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not selfish, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record injustice. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always hopes, always reliable, always perseveres. " (1 Cor 13: 4-7) I am convinced is the idea of God of love.
I can this story, because this is the story telling.
Yes, I just said that!
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