What to Do in an Abusive Relationship

Many women all over the world unfortunately are victim to an abusive relationship. This type of torture isn't just exclusive to physical torture but mental as well. Most women never realise that they are part of an abusive relationship before it's too late. Life shouldn't be about being dictated and being told what to do in the fear of being abused by there partner whether man or woman. Relationship abuse in reality was never acceptable and shall never be, it's cruel and can leave the woman in question with lasting bad memories and self worth issues. Life is about being happy and doing the most with your time on this beautiful earth, follow my tips below on what you should if you are currently being abused by your man.

Your Number 1, not him.

Every woman on the planet deserves to be loved and cared for properly. Many victims of an abusive relationship claim they are partly at fault for angering there partner or instigating the others temper. This is not true at all, and this way of thinking should be eliminated forever. You need to stop playing victim and take control of your life. If you let a man dictate when you can and can't be happy then sadly you will always be a victim of your own cause.

Stop making excuses, and accept your denial

There are many reasons you maybe going through denial even though you truly think you are not. Denial is a funny thing that everyone experiences on both sides of the sexes. If you know you are being abused deep down inside then do something about it. In this day and age there is no excuse to not do so, especially with all the support available. At the end of the day you have to make the decision, not others. Friends, family and support groups are there to support your decision not make it. Many a time has a women returned to there partner under the false illusion that there partner has changed. Big mistake. Yes people change, but they have to be willing to change. If there unwilling to seek help themselves for there temper or anger issues what makes you think he wont abuse you once more. Make a decision and stick to it. Your stronger than you think.

Never, Ever, Make the same mistake twice

This should be common sense. If you have taken action to do something about your abusive relationship then its a call to action to take action in life itself. Does that make sense? What I am trying to tell you is that many things in life can be created or destroyed in a matter of seconds, it's up to you that determines what happens around you. As I have said before, don't let life push you around, push life around to the way you want it. Period. Life is a learning process, if you don't like something then make sure it does not happen again, a plan of action is action in itself. Remember that.

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