Dealing With An Abusive Relationship

"No man is worth your tears. And the one who is won't make you cry." -Brian Littrell

Physical and emotional abuse can very easily cause deep permanent damage to an individual. What's unfortunate about the situation is that you live in fear of daily abuse but still stay in the relationship. You find yourself covering up the marks, crying through the hurtful words, and making excuses for him. Abusive relationships originate from anger and him establishing a sense of control. Then before you know it he controls every cent you make and how much you spend. Now you're there feeling completely trapped and dependent on him with no way out.

It can only be his fault for so long though. You have to get yourself out. A verbally abusive relationship is just as bad as a physical one. They both will lead to psychological issues. So you can't ignore the warning signs. The verbal and emotional abuse will quickly escalate to physical harm. All he can do after the damage is done is say sorry and make promises to never do it again. Once that point is reached you can't listen to any of those lies because history is just going to repeat itself.

It doesn't matter how much you love him, you have to love yourself more and know that you don't deserve that hurt. You will get what you tolerate and the longer you stay the harder it will be to get out. Don't let him break you and make you believe that everything is your fault. There are so many people and organizations out there to help you. They help women find a way to get out of the destructive environments they are currently in. "Statistics states that on average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends every day." If you're in a verbally or physically abusive relationship or see your current relationship heading that direction please seek the help you need so you aren't the next victim to add to this statistic. Take care of yourself ladies because if he's not willing to seek the help he needs for his abusive ways then your only option is to leave. The biggest sign is your friends and family; if they're constantly telling you something doesn't look or feel right about him then they're probably right. Below I have a domestic violence hotline number and a few websites to read about the signs of an abusive partner and other ways to get out. My prayers are with you. Be Blessed!

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